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XD005
Newbie
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Registered: 07-07-2013 Location:
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posted on 07-07-2013 at 04:06 |
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A virgin while my girflriend isn't
Hello everyone. I'm new here. I need some advice and I thought this would be the website to discuss this issue at as nobody really understands unless you've been in this situation before.
But anyway, I met this girl who I like quite a bit. In fact the thought of not being with her anymore makes me pretty sad and thats why this even IS an issue. But anyway, with me being a virgin and her not being one, I feel like my decision to wait for the right person was in vain as if she truly is my other half, didn't decide to wait for me. I try not to think about it but it sometimes creeps into my head anyway. I try and think of the big picture that sex isn't everything and she didn't even like the guy she slept with she tells me and they only did it 4 - 5 times but the thought of him taking something so precious and important (at least to me) makes me angry and sad.
I'm just not sure what to do here. I just feel like my entire life waiting was pointless as I've had chances to take other girl's virginitys but I'm not the type of guy to just do that for the sake of getting laid or if I don't have feelings for the girl as thats my virginity too, I'd be wasting. I've thought about finding someone else but what if this girl was meant to be my soulmate and I don't find anyone as good as her. I find myself asking is it really worth it but at the same time, I feel very uncomfortable with giving her something I won't get in return as I want my first time to be where neither my partner or me have a clue what we are doing. And at the very least if I do end up giving my virginity to her, I know I'll feel like I need to "make up" for all the time of being abstinent and go out and find a virgin anyway. I'll wonder what its like to take a girl's virginity as I've had that idea in my head my entire life pretty much. But thats kinda going against my whole belief system...
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