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perdu
Newbie
Posts: 1
Registered: 09-06-2004 Location:
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posted on 09-06-2004 at 10:25 |
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Lots of questions!!!!! (and some frustration too)
Ok, I still can't get into the singles board to ask questions and I can't hold them in anymore. I gotta ask someone.
I am 25 and have been curious about various aspects of the swinger culture since I was 21. I have placed ads with no luck (not even a response!)
The things I am curious about are voyuerism, exhibitionism, and BDSM. I know it's more difficult for single guys to get into the lifestyle, but geez, what does it take? I have just recently learned to use the internet and am trying to use this as a tool as well but right now I'm not interested in putting anymore ads up if I'm not gonna get any kind of response.
I write a lot and I think I'm very good with words. I don't understand why my ads don't work. What words should I be using?
Is it a matter of no one wanting to be a teacher?
And the BDSM is the part that is very sensitive. I have fantasies about being tied up and fantasies about tying a woman up. How do I approach anyone about it? How do I know someone that approaches me is trustworthy? How do I know they are experienced and are willing to help me find my limits and boundaries?
Watching a man sleep with his wife and having him watch me sleep with his wife can wait. I am very anxious to explore my BDSM fantasies but am becoming frustrated at my situation. I am paralyzed, immobile, I don't know where to start, I don't know anything. In the meantime I just get mad sitting here wanting to fulfill these fantasies and not being able to.
SOMEBODY! Please, send some advice. I would appreciate it.
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