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wildtiger
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posted on 05-18-2004 at 08:51 |
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Advice?
I did not have much of a chance to explore my lesbian side before my soul mate swooped me up. Whether my soul mate had been male or female, i would have been happy either way.
And now, i am happily married, but still looking to explore my lesbian side. I never dated as an adult and really have no idea how to go about exploring a gay singles bar. I really just want to meet someone to chat with and get to know and perhaps see where things go from there casually.
My question to the forum, is how do lesbians react to married bicurious women? I would hate to offend anyone I meet at a bar. Should i keep my situation private or be open about my situation? Is there ettiquete i should be aware of (never having done the bar scene even straight).
thank you.
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freedom
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Registered: 04-20-2004 Location:
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posted on 05-18-2004 at 08:56 |
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you have sent up a really hard question for the postings. One I am sure would not be an easy one for anyone to give advice too! I mean you say your soul mate has swooped you up and you are happy, yet you want to explore your Lesbian side. And believe the Bi Woman in you has been there for some time, but does you mate know this, was he aware of this when you said YES to him. I may come across as a right Bitch by saying this, but really girl you are married, and with marriage come rules. I mean weather you entre a gay or straight partnership it is for love and life. Cheating is a rule in the book of marriage that should not be broken! All I can say is you MUST be honest with your hubby, and the woman who may offer you what you are craving for, simply because people will get hurt!!!! You may lose the man that "swooped" you up, who you say makes you happy! But all I can say is the best of luck to you, and becareful with your heart, you husbands heart, and the heart of some woman that may come into your life!
Just play it safe, and be honest, with all parties involved!
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