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nikitos
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Registered: 02-01-2017 Location:
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posted on 02-01-2017 at 02:55 |
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need help and advice
hi there ,
am new to all of this so please bear with me...
am a divorced man with 3 kids.
recently i have married... she is 7 years younger,,,
i was straight about my situation right from the start... about my kids and my ex wife..
and how they will always be a part of my life.
and she said she is ok with all that .
recently we have been having serious issues, and its always about the same things...
issue one:
i have not told my kids and ex me getting married. the reason being i dont think they are ready for that ( the kids).. as the divorce only came out a year ago... and they are still digesting it... i just dont want them to hate me more than they already do..
issue two:
the ex wife... we have been separated for over 3 years, and we had our ups and downs, and finally i can say we found our calm.... she calls me when ever she needs anything for Kids or if she is having any issues. and we share a random text every now and then... random irrelevant stuff... point is we are finally talking. calmly no shouting just normal human conversation..
i send her small gifts for xmass and b day.... i think its normal and human to do such.
this is where it gets tricky cos my wife gets jealous, and she said that she doesn't want me talking to my ex about anything other than kids...
and this this where am stuck right now...
dont know is the right thing to do....
please give me your honest opinion,,
i dont want to lose anther wife.. and i dont want to destroy relationship with ex.. it took to much damn effort to get where we are today
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henryrangel
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Registered: 05-25-2020 Location: New York City, New York
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posted on 05-25-2020 at 05:09 |
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need help and advice
You should do as you see fit. You need to explain to your current wife that you need to communicate with your ex and stay in good relations with her. If her jealousy goes beyond the boundaries and because of this you cannot properly build a relationship with her, file for divorce. No seriously. There is nothing worse than a woman nearby, who every time reproaches you for what you do.
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