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JenFromNJ
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Registered: 01-09-2012 Location:
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posted on 01-09-2012 at 05:26 |
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18 year old virgin female
Like many here I am a virgin. Unlike many I have never dated so I was never in a position to be pressured to lose it. I am not opposed to losing it, but I guess there is also a large part of me that wants to wait until marriage. Part of it is fear ... Fear of that level of vulnerability, fear of the pain (though when I do lose it I want the pain, I want to feel conquered more than wooed), fear of that level of submission in giving my greatest of gifts, and fear of how bad I will be at it. I think another reason I have never dated is that I am scared I won't be good enough. I never want my heart broken but I dont know how to be a good girlfriend. Maybe that sounds silly and I am pretty but I am just being honest. Finally, I do not know how to meet the right man for me. I like older men, manly men, aggressive men, and men who like taking a leadership role in a relationship who aren't turned away from a deferential respectful passive kind of woman. And a man who understands just how important purity is and what it would mean for me to give any part of that away. Anyway that is me in a nutshell.
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CKfromUK
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posted on 01-12-2012 at 10:40 |
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hey
hey that is cool, you should wait for the guy you want and not rush it .. im 21 and still a virgin because i haven't found the girl for me.
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anonymousperson
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Registered: 03-27-2011 Location:
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posted on 02-06-2012 at 06:17 |
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Hi
Why do you want to feel conquered? why would you want to be with a over controlling narcissistic agressive asshole who won't give you much freedom to do as you please? and what is manly to you? let me guess, you just want protection and security, right?
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