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Stevensa
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Registered: 10-19-2011 Location:
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posted on 10-19-2011 at 08:05 |
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Smile wth me on this !!!
Thanks all of you for sharing your experiences. I wish that all men starting with the internet dating scene could just read here and learn from the more experienced guys on internet dating. I also had a terrible experience and I know some of you will have a smile when reading this, but at the time I was very upset but the experience I gained was valuable. I was corresponding with a lady from Cherkassy and everything was A for ok from the word go. In 6 months we built a relationship that you can only dream of and then I went to meet her. That time I was so sure that I would get there and fall in love within days. I did not even bother to line up more ladies because I had met my ...how do they say ...second half !!!. We were to meet in the restaurant at seven in the evening. Her English was not good and she was going to bring and interpreter to help. At 10 past seven she comes in the door with a man, an older woman and a younger woman. I jump up with my flowers and excited to hug and say hello but I see immediatlty something is wrong and the younger lady, the interpreter, asks me to sit because she needs to tell me something....Now this was her story exactly ... She siad that Olga, my lady, had met this man 3 days ago who she was with and fell in love. But she did not want me to come all the way for nothing so she brough Mamma, the lady 15 years older than me, to introduce to me and she hopes that I will like Mamma and stay and get to know her better ...Can you believe this .... I was very upset but luckily I am totally in control of my emotions and only took the flowers, threw them into the bin at the door and walked off to my apartment.
Now I am full of experience and I agree with all the advice you guys are giving through this writing. I can only add by saying ...don't send money. Ladies on Anastasia are not allowed to accept money. The moment they ask for money, say goodbye. Then I believe that the chat service on Anastasia is filled with ladies who are not serious and sitting there for the money / points they earn. It is very expensive and you can speak for one hour and have nothing said and its $50 later. Watch the fine print ...if video is on it is double the cost and cam is 6 credits a minute which comes to hundreds of $$$ per hour. I tried with 6 ladies to exchange personal information and 5 said that they are not allowed and they want to chat only and no letters. The one lady, who was the genuine, and most serious and most beautiful, wrote doen my telephone number because I wrote it in words and not numbers then the translator does not pick it up. She then sent me a sms and I had her number and we exchanged email adresses and Skype addresses and now we are chatting and she has stopped chatting through the service because she also found it to be a waste of time for those who are serious. Now, one month later I have 3 wonderful serious ladies to whom I am talking to on Skype every evening and I will go and meet all 3 of them. They invited me and that is a good sign. Don;t push yourself into a visit, even if you are crazy about a woman. Good luck to all of you and lets keep on sharing good and bad. My brother met his wife through internet 11 years ago. It took them a few days to fall in love, married in 6 weeks and after 11 years still inseperable and in love like 11 years ago. Cheers. Steven
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mali
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Registered: 01-25-2016 Location:
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posted on 01-25-2016 at 14:27 |
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mali
Thank you found interesting information !!!!
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