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clear_sky
Newbie
Posts: 2
Registered: 10-09-2011 Location: Kent, UK
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posted on 10-09-2011 at 14:18 |
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A bit of an introduction and about my virginity
Hi everyone!
Just realized something just a little earlier on today and I wanted to post it here, so I jotted it down and signed up! Here's what I wrote to be my first post (thought I'd write it while inspired to do so! ) :
I realized something today. That there's nothing WRONG with being a virgin, and I don't need to pressure myself or feel bad or guilty or anything I can jusr enjoy things however I want to enjoy them. I do masturbate and stuff and right now am really fairly content. To be honest, I think the whole pressure to do it was by far the biggest boundary and also the biggest source of anxiety, etc. As soon as I learn to let GO of that and just be me, suddenly life feels so much better! That's why I thought I'd try spending time somewhere like this where people won't be shocked, won't judge, won't go on and on about their sexual experiences to me lol, so I can just chill out and take a breather and enjoy my current approach and where I am currently without pressure to be somewhere else :)
I don't believe it's imperative to have sex to be happy or to be healthy, as long as (at least for guys) you are masturbating at least on occasion as that does seem biologically useful to the body. Probably the only thing that's harmful is the social context and potential mindsets.
ANYWAY enough yapping! Delighted to be here - hello everyone! ^_^
So erm, that's it! I look forward to getting to know all of you :)
Clear-Sky
EDIT -- Oh and by the way sorry, I'm 26, male and from the UK! I'll put that info somewhere properly at some point I think!
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