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Jaracai
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Registered: 07-07-2007 Location:
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posted on 07-07-2007 at 08:07 |
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Questions for women
I've heard mixed opinions about sex after marriage, but let me put it to you straight. God made marriage, and marriage is holy. Sex was a gift from God, and it was meant for having after marriage. I have heard of many girls saying that they do not believe in sex after marriage, but yet they still say that they wouldn't want to throw away their virginity to any random guy, but that they'd want to save it for a special occasion.
That they want their first time to be special, or their first time to be with someone they love, or have a relationship with. Wow, I could not think of a more hypocritical situation.
Why do some women disagree with sex after marriage, yet still wish to give up their virginity for a "special" occasion. Many girls give away their virginity in a relationship, but if they were told to give it away to a random guy, they'd be disgusted. In reality, there's no difference. Just because they have a relationship doesn't mean anything, and relationships often break up. What many women who say this really mean is that they want their first time to be "holy" or special, much like sex after marriage, sex for the first time.
What I'm wondering is why some women disagree with sex after marriage yet still want the holiness of union in a relationship and try to find the holiness of marriage and the specialness of marriage in sex before marriage. If they don't agree with sex being a holy thing after marriage, then why do they seek to make their first time just like if they were married, and seek to make it special and holy?
They disagree with it but try to endorse it? Doesn't make sense. Sex before marriage has no holiness or special meaning to it whatsoever. So why do girls give themselves up after they have a relationship, much like having sex after marriage, but if they disagree with it, they refuse to have one night stands or have random sex? Hypocrisy.
Anyways, please reply, I'll be happy to hear what you think, as long as it isn't an insult or something mean.
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