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Geraldine
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Registered: 06-29-2006 Location:
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posted on 06-29-2006 at 22:15 |
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I need help I dont know what to do???? Can you help
Hi my name is Blanca,
i have a problem and i may need someones help to be honest with anyone that can help me. In high school i was the girl that most people thought i wasn;t a virgin which i am one till now. i had lot of guy friend but they all respect me because of the fact that im a virgin they didnt allow any other guys come near me thats why most girl would think that i wasnt a virgin because they took care of me .
now im 20yrs old and i have a boy friend wonderful guy he know that im a virgin i told him. i love him and he loves me i feel it. we have talk about make love not sex but im afraid, scared, lost, and confused. a part of me wants to but then the other part of me thinks of what my mom will say to me and i scared that i may get pregnant because i happen to some girl. i dont know can someone anyone help me lost and cofused
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cccccrazy
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Registered: 03-19-2006 Location:
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posted on 07-01-2006 at 16:32 |
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You have lots of doubts and seem like your not close to being 100% ready. If youre not ready, it won't be enjoyable for you or your guy. If one of your reasons for wanting to lose your virginity is that eveyrone already thought you werne't one, it's not a good reason. If they've been wrong for 4 years of high school, let them still be wrong. Not a big deal.
I'd also suggest having a casual talk with your mom before you do anything, if you're worried about what she thinks. Ask her questions, tell her what's on your mind. She could have the best advice for you <<<
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The Virgin Nurse
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Posts: 117
Registered: 06-04-2005 Location: Somewhere in Louisiana
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posted on 07-13-2006 at 19:29 |
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hmm
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Hi my name is Blanca,
i have a problem and i may need someones help to be honest with anyone that can help me. In high school i was the girl that most people thought i wasn;t a virgin which i am one till now. i had lot of guy friend but they all respect me because of the fact that im a virgin they didnt allow any other guys come near me thats why most girl would think that i wasnt a virgin because they took care of me .
now im 20yrs old and i have a boy friend wonderful guy he know that im a virgin i told him. i love him and he loves me i feel it. we have talk about make love not sex but im afraid, scared, lost, and confused. a part of me wants to but then the other part of me thinks of what my mom will say to me and i scared that i may get pregnant because i happen to some girl. i dont know can someone anyone help me lost and cofused
The only advice I can give to you is that you are the only one that can conquer this uneasy feeling. You can always talk to someone that is close to you and can be understanding. It's a whole lot better than being lost and confused. I wish you luck.
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KICKER
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Registered: 09-06-2006 Location:
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posted on 09-06-2006 at 07:03 |
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Scared
Being scared and having doubts about losing your virginity is a natural thing. Both of the replies above explain it quite well.
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